Now accepting weddings for 2025 & 2026

Your wedding
guests, handled
by an AI.

Confirmly is an autonomous agent that manages your entire guest lifecycle — from RSVP through final headcount — over WhatsApp, in every language, while you focus on the rest of your wedding.

A
A & J's Wedding
Online — 247 guests confirmed
Today, 10:42
Hi Priya! You've been invited to A & J's wedding on 14 September 2025 atonte Brockett Hall, Hertfordshire. Please let us know if you can make it!
You can reply simply: "Yes, 2 guests" or "No" — or ask me anything!
Yes, 2 guests. Both vegetarian. Thank you!
Delivered ✓✓
You're confirmed!
2 guests · Vegetarian
Ceremony & Reception
We've noted your dietary requirements and passed them to the caterer.
I'll send reminders closer to the day. If anything changes, just let me know!
The agent handles everything from here...
247
guests confirmed
18
pending
6
dietary needs tracked
The problem

"My mum spent three hours
every evening chasing RSVPs."

That's not a quote. That's a pattern. The average UK couple spends 528 hours planning a wedding — and the RSVP chase is the part that eats evenings, ruins moods, and involves your parents doing unpaid admin for a party they're already stressed about hosting.

528
hours spent planning
the average UK wedding
8 wks
of back-and-forth
chasing RSVPs alone
20–30%
of guests who never
respond without a chase

Existing tools give you a form. We give you an employee.

How it works

Three steps. Then it runs
itself — for months.

01

Share your guest list

Upload your guest list, set your events (ceremony, reception, sangeet — whatever your wedding looks like), and tell us your deadlines. We handle the setup.

02

We reach out — in every language

Each guest gets a personal WhatsApp message, addressed by name, in whatever language they're most comfortable with. Hindi, Punjabi, Polish, Yoruba, Urdu — it understands.

03

You watch it fill — then forget about it

Confirmations, dietary needs, plus-ones, and special requests land on your dashboard in real time. The agent chases stragglers, handles changes, and sends pre-event reminders. You only step in for edge cases.

What makes it different

Built for the realities
of a modern UK wedding.

50+ languages, spoken naturally

Your guests reply in Hindi, Punjabi, Polish, Urdu, Mandarin, Yoruba, Spanish — whatever they type, it's understood and handled. Multilingual families are the norm, not the exception.

Every event, separately tracked

Ceremony, wedding breakfast, evening do, sangeet, mehndi — whatever your days look like. Each guest confirms each event on its own, with plus-ones and dietary needs captured per event. One spreadsheet to give your caterer.

It understands real conversation

"Same as mine", "just me for the ceremony", "my partner can't make the evening" — the agent handles what a rigid form never could. Nobody feels like they're talking to a robot.

Chases gently, stops when it should

Polite, well-timed reminders at the right hours. It knows when to escalate to you and when a gentle nudge will do. Your guests feel cared for, not harassed.

Live dashboard, ready for your caterer

Real-time headcount, dietary breakdown, plus-one tracking — all exportable in one click. No more chasing your own spreadsheet on the morning of.

Autonomous — not just automated

This isn't a form builder. The agent works 24/7: reaching out, following up, handling questions, processing changes, sending reminders. You approve the edge cases. It does the rest.

The gap

Not just an RSVP tool.
Guest management, end to end.

Other tools
Confirmly
RSVP collection
Yes
Yes
WhatsApp-native delivery
Some
Yes
Multilingual (50+ languages)
No
Yes
Autonomous follow-up
No
Yes
Multi-event tracking
Some
Yes
Handles dietary & plus-ones
Yes
Yes
Pre-event reminders
No
Yes
Changes & cancellations handled
No
Yes
Edge case escalation to couple
No
Yes
Caterer-ready export
Manual
One click
Pricing

One flat fee per wedding.
No surprises, no seat limits.

For a single wedding, however many guests, however many events. We set everything up for you.

Essential
£149
Small & simple weddings
  • Up to 100 guests
  • 1 event
  • All 50+ languages
  • Live dashboard
  • Plus ones & dietary needs
  • Done-for-you setup
Premium
£599
The grand celebration
  • Unlimited guests & events
  • All languages
  • Autonomous agent — full lifecycle
  • Priority setup
  • Custom welcome message
  • Hotel & travel answers for guests
  • Group access (up to 4)
  • Daily summary to your WhatsApp
  • Post-event follow-up
All plans include done-for-you setup. No technical knowledge required. No per-message charges.

Give your parents their evenings back.

The RSVP chase is a second job nobody signed up for. Confirmly does it — warmly, personally, and in whatever language each guest is most comfortable with. The couple gets their wedding back. The parents get their evenings back. The guests get a experience that feels like being looked after, not processed.